If you have any resources for bereaved fathers, please contact me with the information. I’m finding it quite difficult to dig up information specifically targeting that group, and since my son’s father died in the accident with him, I have no personal experience other than the conversations I’ve shared with bereaved fathers through TCF.
Alan Pedersen’s site EverAshley Music is an excellent resource for bereaved parents in general. He writes about his experience in losing his beautiful daughter, and his music is so perfect for many of us. His song ‘Tonight I Hold This Candle’ sums up quite eloquently the feelings of both hope and pain that I felt at last year’s TCF Candle Lighting Ceremony. It was played while we lit the candles, and it made the task a bit easier some how.
Alan, if you find your way to this blog, thanks so much for your work. You honor your daughter in such a beautiful way. Thank you for sharing her with us.

