Andy was eight years old at the time of his death. He lived with his father and stepmother. Following in his father’s footsteps, he showed a keen interest in math. Following in his mother’s footsteps, he enjoyed taking apart anything and everything to see how things worked. He might have been a great engineer one day.
Even as a baby, he had a gentle spirit that made people smile. Through photographs, he’s still bringing smiles to the faces of people who ‘meet’ him.
Andy died on the afternoon of 15 November 2006, in a car crash that also claimed the life of his father. His grandparents, stepmother, and I make sure they remain an important part of our lives. Those who have died live forever in the memories of those who loved them.
Please stop by Andy’s Memorial Website to light a candle for him and leave a brief message.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my only child about one month before your Andy passed. I too find writing on a blog helps. I moved my blog from Yahoo 360 to WordPress in hopes of reaching others. Thank you for writing about your son and your journey.
Comment by indygirl57 — April 26, 2009 @ 6:06 pm |
I am so sorry for your loss. Andy sounds like he was an amazing kid, and his spirit will always be with you. I, too, am grieving the loss of my only child and find that blogging can be therapeutic. God bless you, and your little boy.
Comment by kristin — May 29, 2009 @ 10:24 am |
Just wondering how you are doing these days. Thinking about you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Comment by indygirl57 — June 29, 2009 @ 6:20 pm |
I posted a link to your journal on mine. Our journey is so closely related and our paths have crossed for a reason. Keep the faith my friend. Stay in touch!
Malissa
Comment by indygirl57 — July 19, 2009 @ 1:40 pm |
This is a beautiful blog. Thank you for sharing this link.
I am very sorry for the loss of your son and his father, I have no appropriate words except to send my caring.
You are a brave woman, in very many ways!
♥
Vicki
Comment by vickiinaz — August 9, 2009 @ 8:14 am |
Ah, yes, I remember your son and your story now. When you and I first met on the Internet, you were not accustomed to having your story visible to so many. I welcome you to the world of open pain and open comment. This is not always a welcomed opportunity, but I’m so glad we’re here together.
Thank you for being a frequent flier at mysteryoriley.com. I knew we had child loss in common, but now you seem to be okay with this more obvious communication. Welcome, and be careful, my friend.
I’m experiencing a true ah-ha moment, in knowing who you are in a more exposed way. It’s not for everyone. But, for those of us who have lost children, hey, what have we got to lose? Really. Can anyone take away more? No. Just that. No. We will rebuild our lives in our own time, and then, we may ask ourselves, would I risk as much in sharing with the world???
Peace, screaming, crying, smiling, laughing, and remembering to you, my dear friend,
Linda
Owen’s mom
Comment by Linda — October 16, 2009 @ 12:47 am |
indygirl57– My apologies for having taken so long to reply to your comment. I’m so very sorry to hear you’ve lost your only child as well. It truly is a hole that can’t be filled. Strength and comfort to you from someone who knows, to the greatest extent possible, what you’re going through.
Comment by bjw788898 — May 4, 2009 @ 6:19 pm |
Kristin, your comment brought tears to my eyes. It’s terrible that so many of us have to deal with a loss like this, but I’m so grateful we can all help support each other. Best to you on this journey.
Comment by bjw788898 — May 29, 2009 @ 4:19 pm |
indy, I’m always amazed and the love and support we members of the Internet community give each other. Thanks so much for thinking of me. Sometimes just knowing someone out there is offering their kind thoughts makes such a difference. May you find peace as well.
Comment by bjw788898 — June 30, 2009 @ 9:06 pm |
And to you as well, Malissa. Let’s do keep in touch. Feel free to email any time as well. grey_rain@lycos.com I truly appreciate the good thoughts you send my way and return them to you as well. May your good days outnumber the bad.
Comment by bjw788898 — July 19, 2009 @ 6:47 pm |
Thanks, Vicki, for your kindness. I truly appreciate it.
Comment by bjw788898 — August 9, 2009 @ 10:45 am |